I’d rather be able to go shopping again in a supermarket. I broke my leg at the end of January and since then have to rely on others, mainly Mr. Swiss and my son, for shopping. I am not complaining, they do their best. It might be the nightmare of most housewives, but I have discovered that organising others to do it, is not the same. You cannot choose, but it is chosen for you.
I am missing the daily search for the goods I want, choosing the meat being offered, deciding what today’s vegetable should be and discovering the bits and pieces of daily life. There is the social side of it as well. I have discovered something about myself that I did not realise existed. I need the social contact with others, even if is only a supermarket and all because I broke my leg. Only a few weeks (I hope) and I will be moving again, even if it is with the hated walker.
So many people dislike shopping. I’m not one of them. Someone told me that when I retire I won’t have to buy so many clothes but I love shopping for clothes. My 91 year old dad loves to shop and he goes out almost daily to buy something. I think I’ve inherited the shopping gene from him.
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Since being a golden oldie I have realised the benefits of shopping. I go places and see things and can even take a few photos on the way
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I think shopping is a social activity too. I do not drive so it only happens if someone drives me. I hope you get up and about sooner instead of later.
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I drive, but only if I have to. Getting about is in the starting phase, but I am getting there
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Good for you. You’re getting there.
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You’re doing well — you’ll soon be up and on your way as you were before the accident!
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I hope so
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You will get there. Right now, we are barely going anywhere because the weather is so bad. By the time your leg is working, our snow may have melted. We all live in hope 😀
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Our last 2 day snowfall disappeared in a day. Yesterday it was spring with temperatures reaching 20 degrees C. Today back to normal cold
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I hope you get well soon
Sometimes it is really wonderful to be in a shopping mood.
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I just miss being there and getting involved
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Soon, once you get well😊
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Isn’t it funny how the little things become important when we can’t do them? I know your feeling. I think it’s the loss of normalcy. The day-to-day isn’t normal right now. Wishing you a speedy recovery!
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That is definitely part of the problem. I never thought I would miss a shopping trip, but behenbyounare unable to do it, something is missing
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Rather you than me. Shopping, I mean. I don’t like it. Not for food. Not for clothes. Or anything else, for that matter. It’s one of the tasks I gladly handed over to my husband who retired a few years before me (I am not yet retired but I’ve scaled down to part-time). I hope you get well soon, though, so you can do whatever you feel like it. Not getting around when one wants to do so is a drag! And I hope: no pain, no lasting effects.
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I suppose I have never been in such a position where I am really isolated from daily life. My daily routine is non existant and I realise how much I miss it. It is not the shopping but going to the familiar places, meeting people, having conversations and seeing things. Even meat and veg gets interesting. Now I do all the logistics for Mr. Swiss to get everthing. I cannot wait until I am back to a normal condition, but it will take some time. I am still walking with this dreadful walker and practicing with the stick, although I must be careful not to lose my balance. When you break your leg, together with having MS it can get very precare. Pain is there, but does not bother so much.
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Consider yourself virtually hugged. Get well soon. So you can take your hands off that walker and press the shutter on your camera again!
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I agree with you… even with the daily routine of going to groceries or supermarket can make you happy inside especially choosing what you want and what’s on special haha! I wish you a full recovery soon! Take care.
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Mr Swiss is doing a good Job, but he is just bringing what is on the list. I like to potter.around and I miss the thrill of discovery
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