What a miserable day it is, and the rain has only fallen once, but all day. Mr. Swiss called me this morning and was completely miserable, because he wants to come home. I reassured him that it would be better for him to stay in the clinic until he really felt better. In the meanwhile the doctor from the clinic called me and asked how I felt if he would be released at the week-end. It seems he has made good progress and he will be brought home next Saturday by invalide transport during the morning. I have a feeling that he was complaining so much, they will be glad to say goodbye. Naturally he will be glad to be home again. I will be getting help to cope from a Swiss organisation, but will only need them in the morning to help with a wash and getting out of bed. It looks like things are going upwards.
I told Mr. Swiss on the telephone that our computer printer was not printing.This morning my cleaning lady was here. She is such a wonderful person and so practical. She is an expert at repairing things and of course within ten minutes she had it working again perfectly. Somehow it had lost the connection to our computer. She also orgnanised the printer in another place which is much better. She said she has been living alone for so many years, she just has to learn to do it herself. I have decided that I will no longer rely on Mr. Swiss with such jobs. I have learnt a lot from my days of solitude.
Although it is raining constantly today, it does not seem to bother the birds so much, although perhaps they gather a little closer together. I had my grocery delivery this morning and already sent off my order for Friday to make sure I get my delivery slot for the morning. It is New Year’s Eve and probably everyone will be ordering. Now the holiday stress is at last over and I can relax and take it easy.
The sparrows were gathering in the trees opposite, perhaps hoping to star in a remake of the film “The Birds”. And I am now off for the evening. I wish you all best wishes.
Your cleaning lady sounds fantastic! You and she are a pretty dynamic duo. Good news (but funny, too) about Mr Swiss. So they will be happy to give him the old heave-ho…it is usually a good sign when someone starts complaining. I think he must be feeling better!
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It really looks like Mr. Swiss is back. I have a feeling they will be glad when he goes, although I got on very well with the doctor. My cleaning lady really has a career behind her and someone even wrote a book about her life. She is from Columbia. She needed money as a young mother with a baby and was a drug courrier when a teenager and got arrested in Switerland. Spent a few years in prison and broke from the drug life. There is a lot more to tell about how she nearly died because she had to swallow the plastic bags with the drugs. she had her own company for cleaning, but it collapsed some years ago. She is not only my cleaner, but my friend
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Glad to hear Mr. Swiss is coming home. Glad you are rolling with the changes.
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At least the new year is beginning on a good note.
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So glad things are looking up for you Pat. And wow – what a story anout your cleaning lady. I am sso glad she is your friend. I wish you well Pat
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My cleaning lady is really a Wonder Woman. Mr. Swiss will be glad to be home again. I think he is getting bored where he is
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Yes your cleaning lady does sound a Wonder woman. I can understand why Mr. Swiss is getting bored where he is. Once you start feeling better you don’t want to be there!
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Surely is. My wife had surgery about 2 weeks ago and was sent home because she healed well and is a law unto herself. She kept leaving the hospital for better coffee,they were so frustrated.
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Havi ng spent my time in hospitals and rehabilitation/therapy homes, I can appreciate Mr. Swiss’ desire to be home again! One doctor told me he used the “can they eat, pee, poop, walk” standard for releasing his patients. By the same token, I once waited one extra day in hospital because he was too busy to come and release me the day I expected to leave.
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Those words just about sum it up and I really hope that he will manage OK. The Swiss are experts at rehab homes, but even then the patients prefer to be back home.
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As Dorothy says while she clicks her heels in “The Wizard of Oz”, “There’;s no place like home!”
Even in the best of hospitals, more so rehab places, there isn’t much privacy, and the food rarely is as tasty or conveniently located from one’s room when one has to go to meals, as at home.
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He has a room to himself with a view on the lake and the food is apparently good with many choices , but my golden oldie husband of 82 years has lost his appetite
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I had a room with a picture window overlooking historic Cherry Creek and all of Denver, Colorado’s most notable landmarks (state capitol, their art museum, etc.), the Rocky Mountains, and an emergency exercise involving lots of action and the moving in and out of a large airplane body (!) in one Denver hospital, yet I still was anxious to get back to my little town in Western Nebraska and my kitties! That was an atypical situation (other than wanting to see my kitties). Most places are limited in stimulation other than a television in the room and occasional visitors or telephone calls.
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Ah, poor Mr Swiss,the food in our hospitals is horrible.
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That’s good news indeed! Mr Swiss is feeling better enough to be home with you. 💜
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I am glad but I don’t want him to rush things too much
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That’s right. The stronger he is before getting home, the better it will be.
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I wish dear Jessica could learn to take things easy,she was out on her walks with our Agency within a couple of days. The hospital said 6 weeks.
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The Swiss MS society are brilliant. They helped me so much when I couldn’t teach anymore with how to deal with social things. I think they might be able to help you with looking after Mr Swiss too. Think about phoning them.
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My main problem is mobility and balance as well as feeling in my fingers in my right hand. If I habe problems I might call them
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I had two meetings with MS workers and they were absolutely brilliant for pointing me to where I was eligible for help in Switzerland. I recommend the society very highly!
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We had help like that for my dad. It was immensely helpful especially in terms of safety and peace of mind. I’m very happy he’s coming home.
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I had them help before and they were good, but I needed help during the night and they only come during the day
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Hmmm… Maybe there’s a solution for that, but I have no idea. With my dad, it was up to us at night, but he did not need to get up to use the toilet. He used a urinal in bed, which no man wants to do but for safety it was the best idea. ❤
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They had me confined to bed for a week for a video-electroencephlagramme. They had me use the pan and urinal and blanket bathed me. Gee it was frustrating and de-humanizing
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They encourage my husband to walk as much as possible
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So good to hear that things are looking up at your house. Just in time for the New Year. We will continue to keep you and your loved ones in our thoughts and prayers. Have a great day .. SLP …
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He will be back on New Years Day. Thank goodness I organised enough food
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Good Day! Well, I hope it is better now that I am replying to this than it was when you wrote it. I am sorry that things were not so good. I will see what you wrote today in just a bit.
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My husband will be home at the weekend. I am hoping all will go well
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I hope Mr. Swiss recovers his sense of humour and good nature when he’s once again at home. It will save you the trip to the hospital as well which must be a bonus. I’m so glad he’s doing well and able to return home and I hope the improvement continues. Happy New Year to you both.
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He could do with something to laugh at at the moment. He has been quite isolated during his rehab. The clinic is more than an hour away, wising you s happy new year
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